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Wedding Expenses

Traditionally, the bride and her family have paid for the wedding expenses. However, since the average cost of a wedding is $20,000, it is not unusual for the couple, the bride's parents, and the groom's parents to agree to share the costs.

Below is a list of wedding costs and who traditionally pays for what.

WHAT THE BRIDE PAYS FOR

  • Groom's wedding ring
  • Wedding gift to the groom
  • Bride's present to her bridesmaids
  • Lodging accommodations for out-of-town bridesmaids (optional)

WHAT THE BRIDE'S FAMILY PAYS FOR

  • Engagement party (optional)
  • Wedding consultant (if using one)
  • Invitations, announcements and mailing costs
  • Bride's wedding gown and accessories
  • Ceremony costs: location, music, rentals...etc
  • Flowers for the church and reception
  • Bouquets for the bridesmaids
  • Transportation for the bridal party to the church and reception
  • Expenses related to the reception
  • Bridemaids' luncheon
  • Photographer

WHAT THE GROOM PAYS FOR

  • Bride's engagement and wedding rings
  • Marriage license
  • Wedding gift for the bride
  • Gifts for the best man and ushers
  • Bride's bouquet
  • Boutonnieres for attendants and fathers
  • The Clergy's fee
  • Honeymoon expenses

WHAT THE GROOM'S FAMILY PAYS FOR

  • Rehearsal dinner party
  • Travel and accommodations for groom's family
  • Any general expenses they may wish to help pay

WHAT THE ATTENDANT'S PAY FOR

  • Dress and accessories
  • Gift to wedding couple
  • Showers given by maid of honor or bridesmaids
  • Bachelor party given by best man or ushers
  • Bachelorette party given by maid of honor and bridesmaids

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