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Maid of Honor Duties

Tradition dictates a long list of maid of honor duties. However, the number one duty for the maid of honor is to just be there for emotional support for the bride.

Pre-wedding Day Duties for the Maid of Honor:

  • Help the bride shop for her wedding dress.
  • Help the bride in choosing the bridesmaid's dresses.
  • Picture of maid of honor helping bride with veil.

  • Help with addressing invitations.
  • Help with the decorations.
  • Pay for her own wedding attire.
  • Help delegate responsibilities among the bridesmaids.
  • Host a bridal shower with the help of the bridesmaids.
  • Buy a gift for the bride and groom.
  • Record which gifts came from which guest at bridal showers.
  • Host a couples shower for the bride and groom with the help of the best man.
  • Host a bachelorette party with the help of the bridesmaids.
  • Help to make sure that all bridesmaids have ordered their dresses and accessories.
  • Let the bridesmaids know about all parties, functions, and rehearsals.
  • Attend all pre-wedding events.
  • Attend the rehearsal dinner.

Wedding Day Duties:

  • Be on time the morning of the wedding for the hair and makeup trip to the salon.
  • Arrive early to help the bride finish getting ready and to run any last minute errands.
  • Make sure the bride has packed everything she will need on the honeymoon.
  • Be on time for any pre-wedding photos.
  • Oversee the bridesmaids on the wedding day.
  • Get the bride anything she needs before going down the aisle.
  • Precede the bride down the aisle.
  • Straighten the bride's train at the alter.
  • Keep the groom's ring until the appropriate time in the ceremony. Exchange the ring for the bride's bouquet.

Maid of Honor Duties During the Reception:

  • Give a great toast to the bride and groom at the reception.
  • Make sure the bride gets something to eat and drink at the reception.
  • Start the dancing at the reception.
  • Dance with the best man and groomsmen at the reception.
  • Mingle and dance with other guests at the reception.
  • Work at helping to get the party going at the reception.
  • Run interference for the bride. For example, keep any exes or feuding relatives away from the happy couple.
  • Look for and help to make special moments for the bride.
  • Help to decorate the getaway car.
  • Help to carry the wedding gifts out to the car.
  • Make sure that everyone is thanked. This includes the parents, musicians, and site staff.

After the Wedding Day Duties:

  • Check with the bride and groom and see if they need anyone to house-set, get mail, water plants or take care of pets while they are away.
  • If there were throwaway cameras at the reception, get the pictures developed before the couple returns from their honeymoon.
  • Plan a welcome home dinner for the couple.

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